Who we are
Kalyana Mitta is a Pali term meaning “admirable friend” or “spiritual friend.” Admirable friendship is essential to the Buddhist path: the Buddha describes it as the whole of the holy life. Through mutual care, wise guidance, and shared practice, we help one another cultivate the conditions for awakening.
At Kalyana Mitta, the Buddhist tradition you follow is not a condition for belonging. We welcome anyone who wishes to live more mindfully and compassionately, sharing the aspiration for genuine happiness and freedom from suffering. We honor the distinct teachings and practices of different traditions without expecting everyone to adopt the same forms or interpretations.
Our differences are not obstacles to friendship, but opportunities to put the Buddha-dharma into practice. When we listen without dismissing, disagree without hostility, and learn from one another without imposing our views, we cultivate patience, humility, compassion, and wisdom. Sustaining admirable friendship across Buddhist traditions gives living expression to our conviction that the Dharma cannot be confined to any single tradition or outward expression. Harmony need not mean uniformity; it can grow through mutual respect and a shared commitment to reducing suffering.
Our community was initiated by individuals committed to studying, practicing, and sharing the Buddha’s teachings. Our practice is grounded in the foundations of early Buddhism—the Four Noble Truths, the Noble Eightfold Path, and the cultivation of ethical conduct, meditative concentration, and wisdom—while some of us embrace the Mahayana bodhisattva aspiration. This orientation guides our community without the requirement that others set aside their own traditions.
Within our community, we honor both the arahant ideal and the bodhisattva path. Those who follow the arahant ideal seek liberation through the complete ending of greed, hatred, and delusion, while cultivating compassion and supporting others in the Dhamma. Those who follow the bodhisattva path cultivate bodhicitta—the aspiration to attain Buddhahood for the benefit of all beings—and uphold the bodhisattva vows. We respect these distinct aspirations without requiring everyone to adopt the same goal or vows. Together, we put the teachings into practice through generosity, ethical conduct, meditation, wisdom, and everyday acts of care, encouraging one another on the path toward freedom from suffering.
To uphold this commitment, the initiators identify as dharmacārīs—practitioners of the Buddha’s teachings. We regard śīla—ethical conduct, integrity, and responsibility—as a foundation of Buddhist practice. We seek to align every aspect of our lives with śīla, including our thoughts, speech, relationships, livelihood, consumption, and use of time and resources. Through non-harming, honesty, restraint, compassion, and mindful responsibility, we continually examine our intentions and choices. In this way, ethical living supports the development of a calm and clear mind, strengthens meditation and wisdom, and enables us to contribute to the well-being and liberation of all beings.
As lay practitioners, we support ourselves through work and livelihood, and seek to embody samyag-ājīva (Right Livelihood) in practical ways. We aim to earn a living honestly, without exploitation, deception, violence, or participation in activities that cause serious harm to people, animals, or the wider world. We maintain a simple lifestyle and vegetarian diet. Through study, meditation, ethical livelihood, and service, we seek to nurture a community where wisdom and compassion grow together, and where admirable friendship bridges differences without erasing them. We dedicate the goodness of our practice to the liberation of all beings.

Eight Lifetime Precepts
I undertake the training step to abstain from taking life.
I undertake the training step to abstain from
taking what is not given.
I undertake the training step to abstain from
sexual misconduct.
I undertake the training step to abstain from lying.
I undertake the training step to abstain
from divisive speech.
I undertake the training step to abstain
from harsh speech.
I undertake the training step to abstain from idle chatter.
I undertake the training step to abstain
from wrong livelihood.

Eight Uposatha Precepts
I undertake the training step to abstain from taking life.
I undertake the training step to abstain from
taking what is not given.
I undertake the training step to abstain
from all sexual activity.
I undertake the training step to abstain
from false speech.
I undertake the training step to abstain from intoxicating drinks and drugs causing heedlessness.
I undertake the training step to abstain
from eating at improper times.
I undertake the training step to abstain from dancing, singing, music, shows, wearing garlands, using perfumes, and beautifying with cosmetics.
I undertake the training step to abstain from
using high and large seats and beds.
Your friends in the Dhamma

JLee
Janice has lived as a bhikkhuni for 23 years. Having been a Dhamma teacher for over two decades, Janice continues to embody the essence of a true renunciant as she commits to being one of the dhammacaris of KM. She stays steadfast with her initial resolve to share the Buddhist path to others. Firmly focused on her practice, she leads other initiators of KM in upholding the Eight Lifetime Precepts.

Allen
Allen, a writer by profession for over a decade, carefully listens and examines his words before speaking out. A practice that is regarded with high esteem in Buddhism. As a dhammacari in KM, he screens through all content released and published, ensuring its truthfulness.

Issa
Issa has a keen eye for design and exceptionally proficient in rendering a concept into visual elements. Such sharp skills and aptitude are not just evident in her profession as a graphic and layout artist. It is also manifested in her practice as a lay Buddhist. With diligent effort in meditation and study of Dhamma, Issa can be considered as a self-taught dhammacari inspiring other practitioners in earnestly treading the Buddhist path.

Terrie
Terrie is an educator, registered yoga instructor, project manager and program designer. She has deeply benefited from Buddhism and wishes nothing more than to provide an avenue for others to attain joy, happiness, and ease through the practice of Buddhism.
space for practice
A humble space offered to practitioners with serious resolve to work towards their true happiness
GENUINE SUPPORT
Learning together and encouraging each other to continue to do the important inner work of crafting the heart
friendship
Bringing together people on the same path and helping each other develop and pursue the noble eightfold path
WELLNESS WITHIN
An environment that fosters the aspiration for ultimate well-being
